Friday, 12 November 2010

So much for a minor head cold.

It simmered for the better part of a week, just enough to be annoying but not enough to make me feel ill, really. A drippy nose. A bit of stuffyness. Not much more.

Until Monday, that is. Just in time for the arrival of LHB, my cold decided to flare up into mind blowing sneeziness and brain clogging snottiness.

Great. Isn't that just perfect timing.... NOT!

LHB had a load to deliver just north of the city Tuesday morning. Or so he thought. So he arrived in town Monday afternoon and we got to spend some time together. His boss said be there Tuesday morning at 8 a.m. And because it's about an hour's drive north of here, he'd have to head out early to get there.

So. He called the person he was delivering to, to confirm the arrangements because a crane was necessary to offload the load. Wed. morning, he's told. For sure? Yep. So Wed. morning it is.

Cool! We get an extra day! So he's here from Monday early afternoon to Wed. early morning. We were both very pleased with that! I think we both looked like the Cheshire cat when we heard that!!!

Time isn't really something that has been in great abundance yet in this relationship. Little snippets snagged here and there when possible. Phone calls when reception allows, although there are often dead spots where we play 'can you hear me now?' regularly. Email contact has been sporadic as well, with him dependent on wifi availability at truck stops.

We've tried to remedy at least that one issue by getting an mobile internet stick for his laptop. I've one and it works well in the city. The trick is how well it will work while he's on the road. But it works more like a cell phone so if he has cell coverage, he should have internet as well. At least enough to email. Surfing may be slower than molasses in January though.

So we figured he'd be off again once he offloaded that cargo. He called me in the afternoon on Wed. to say his next load was to be picked up very close to my house. And that he didn't have to head out until Thursday morning. And not at the crack of dawn either, because it was Remembrance Day, so leaving would be around 10 a.m.

Again, the Cheshire cats reappeared. Wow! This is unheard off! We got three days and nights in one place. It was wonderful. We actually got a chance to get to know each other in more 'real' situations than being out on a date. We went shopping, we hung around the house, we cooked dinner. Walked the dog. Normal stuff. Everyday stuff. The way you really get to know someone and get glimpses of who they are and to see if there stuff there that freaks you out.

Nope. Nothing. Just enough to know we both want to do this more often. With greater regularity. For longer spans of time.

So the hunt continues for something for him to do here for work. We've bantered ideas back and forth. It's really tough when you've been a trucker for so many years. He's done other things too, but really, trucking is the main thing. So I am hunting online for local businesses that may be something he's interested in. I have the time, you see.... and the motivation!


  1. ooOOoo... How fab is that news?! I shall continue to keep all my crossable bits crossed that it carries on going well for you!!

  2. " ...mind blowing sneeziness and brain clogging snottiness."

    Sounds very alluring, P. You're a lucky woman, now that LHB has seen you at your drippiess and is still around. Congratulations.

  3. I think you've had quite your share of snot for this year, lets hope you feel better soon! As Charlie says, a man who has seen all that snot and still likes ya? Well! Have a good weekend, and a better weekstart! :¬)


  4. Helga: Hi! Thanks... so far, it's going very well indeed! I have all my crossable bits crossed as well. Can't hurt if you do too!

    Charlie: I know... he has been so sweet asking me if I am okay every time I would sneeze or let out a big sigh because I was so stuffy. :-)

    Map: No kidding, I've had enough snot!!! What's up with this anyway??? Thanks, hon! xoxo

  5. It sounds like you've finally found a REAL man...who can accept the reality of life. Any guy who can put up with extra head goo is a gem. I know. I'm married to one.

    Have fun!

  6. Where there's a will there's a way.

    Parenthetical aside: I kinda likes me my Nyquil highs...

  7. LHB is on the road and having issues posting a comment here. So this is a test run with me (Ponita) as Anon...

  8. Huh... it worked for me. Will have to walk him through it tomorrow when we talk... see what he's doing... or not! ;-)

  9. Glad to hear this, especially with him accepting you in your germ-ridden state! Hope it works out. Can't wait to hear the next installment.

  10. Madame: Well, he'd better accept me in my germ-ridden state! After all, he donated those germs directly to me the previous week. ;-)


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