Seems that the action just may be heating up around here.
The man who can't commit but who likes me is still around and we still get together now and then. In fact, we played pool again last night... and again, he trashed me! Admittedly, I suck at playing pool... and while he says he's no better, I must beg to differ... but we had a blast, so who cares! There was a few good shots, lots of laughter and some seriously funny bantering back and forth about sticks and balls...
There are two others in the wings now. Have not met either face to face yet. Have not actually spoken to either yet, but that will change tonight with one.
Guy A is 50, lives on his own and gets his 11 year old son every other weekend. He's an IT guy (did you know online dating sites are crawling with these guys?? go figure...) at a university and our emails have been very interesting. I'm looking forward to actually talking to this one. We seem to have a lot of basic personal thoughts and beliefs in common...
Guy B is 51, has two sons aged 10 and 14 (or close to that) who live with him and go to the ex Wednesdays and every other weekend. He's an account manager with a national firm. We've emailed and also chatted a bit online. Seems like a nice guy.
All three of them seem like nice guys. Well, I know Mr. Noncommittal is a nice guy... I've known him for two months now. The other two... well, time will tell. I know how long B has been on his own, but not A. I'm going to be asking him that this evening when we chat, because it's become painfully obvious to me that that is extremely important in how 'available' a guy really is.
So maybe there will be some development of something in the not too distant future? Hard to tell. I've done this so many times that I just can't get my hopes up. I have learned to just let things flow and see where they migrate.
Going with the flow sounds good to me!
ReplyDelete(Still going for younger men I see!! :¬) )
xoxoxoxoxoxox :¬)
[aside to Shorty]
ReplyDeleteHey mate, I think you are supposed to let her win a game occasionally. Just saying.
Map: Younger seems to work much better for me than a bit older... so I'll stick with it! ;-)
ReplyDeleteXL: To be honest, he did actually try to do that in our last game... but he still won. Although I had a better start than he did...
Have a good time and enjoy yourself. What happens, happens. At least you can rest easy knowing you went out there and found out for yourself instead of wasting time and energy wondering about what ifs. Life's too short. Live it to the fullest.
ReplyDeleteDo you enjoy playing the field, or would you prefer to pitch a tent on one spot?
ReplyDeletepositive and self aware are the words i'd use to describe you, sugar! eros is right, have a good time and enjoy yourself...love finds us when we least expect it! xoxoxoxox
ReplyDeleteHave a good time! Hope it goes well.
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Eros: You got that right!
ReplyDeleteUB: I actually don't enjoy playing the field; I'm searching for someone to pitch that tent with.
Savannah: Thanks, girlie xoxoxoxo
Scarlet: Talked with Guy A last night for about 4 hours... that has to say something!
Keep on with the let it flow...and the best will come back. :)
ReplyDeleteGood luck!
Hope: Thanks! Will be meeting Guy A tomorrow afternoon, and talking to Guy B on the phone tonight. Be interesting to see how both of those go. I've not had several to meet at one time before. A bit nerve wracking but I think I'm keeping cool... =0
ReplyDeleteLife is so complicated; isn't it fun?
ReplyDeleteCharlie: Sometimes, the fun is more than I can stand! ;-)
ReplyDeleteHow in the name of all things bird-like did a sparrow get in your clothes dryer?
ReplyDeleteCharlie: The outside vent didn't have a screen on it... the little thing somehow managed to get between the louvres and I guess it fell down the vent pipe and into the dryer! I'm sure it was more surprised than I was. ;-)
ReplyDeleteAsk each of these guys how they would get a sparrow out of the dryer before you commit to a 2nd date... :)
ReplyDeleteHope all goes well with these ones. Nice to have some choice!
ReplyDeleteOK so I just read the post...adn the comments...and i kinda feel like I'm watching a soap or something and it just got to the end of the episode...I want eth enxt installment!!
ReplyDeleteI'm guessing by now that you met Guy A and at least talked to Guy B...so what happened? were they as nice as thier emails appeared? Is there more to look forward to? Do they know how to get a sparrow out of a dryer?
Yes, What happened?!
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